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I don't think of women in those terms.. honestly. I refuse to associate with any that act in such a distasteful fashion... and I have no problem turning my back one someone that begins to act like that. As far as I'm concerned, a healthy relationship is quite possible when both sides are willing to work towards it and satisfy the needs of the other... or at least make a genuine attempt to.

1) I didn't say all women are like that - I said MOST. 2) I'm right and you guys know it. Mick Jagger is one of the ugliest guys on the planet - but because he's a "rock star" he can get any woman on the planet. (and has) Hugh Hefner (who is old, old, old) has a young wife and 2 girlfriends (30-40 yrs younger than him) - you can't tell me their with him for his sparkling personality. In fact Hugh sleeps with almost every playmate. Yah that must be a real turn on for the women.... NOT. Should I go on? Do you guys really live in fantasy land? Brad Pitt when he first started out in Hollywood he was the guy on the street corner walking around dressed as a hot dog promoting one of those fast food places. Are you going to honestly tell me that Angelina Jolie and Jennifer Aniston would have dated him much less married him and bore children with him while he was working as a hot dog on a street corner? I'm sorry no they wouldn't and most of today's women wouldn't. You know I'm right - and it pisses you off. I understand you guys would like things to be different - we all would - the fact of the matter is we use escorts and they charge us money for sex - most guys - if roles were reversed would provide sex for a woman for free. Why do you guys have such a problem admitting reality?

I agree with everything Chilli said about the sexes (though I would have said it without all the spite). Things are fucked up today between the sexes, even more so than 20-30 yrs. ago. I speak from experience as a vast majority of the women I know and dated are spiteful, selfish spoiled little girls with a "princess complex".

um, this is PERB ... reality don't count for nothing here! ps: i hope your sentiments are more frustration than anger but maybe stepping back from the 'dating scene' and talking to someone about the source of your feelings might help, because you don't want to go through another 20 years of this and wake up one day and go 'oh, it was me after all!' but i also have to agree that women can be confusing ... i have a great female friend who tells me one thing then goes and does the exact opposite and then justifies it by blaming the guy and then whines that there are no 'nice guys' out there but then those she meets are boring and ...

Recently a "Husband Store" opened where women could go to choose a husband from among many men. It was laid out in five floors. The only rule was, once you opened the door to any floor, you HAD to choose a man from that floor; if you went up a floor, you couldn't go back down except to leave the place, never to return. A couple of girlfriends went to the shopping center to find some husbands... First floor The door had a sign saying, "These men have jobs and love kids." The women read the sign and said, "Well, that's better than not having a job or not loving kids, but I wonder what's further up?" So up they went. Second floor The sign read, "These men have high paying jobs, love kids, and are extremely good looking." "Hmmm," said the ladies, "But, I wonder what's further up?" Third floor This sign read, "These men have high paying jobs, are extremely good looking, love kids and help with the housework." "Wow," said the women, "Very tempting." But there was another floor, so further up they went. Fourth floor This door had a sign saying "These men have high paying jobs, love kids, are extremely good looking, help with the housework and have a strong romantic streak." "Oh, mercy me," they cried, "Just think what must be awaiting us further on! So up to the fifth floor they went. Fifth floor The sign on that door said, "This floor is empty and exists only to prove that women are impossible to please. The exit is to your left."

The inverse is true as well... and if the joke was reversed where the attributes of the women to be chosen in the "wife store" improved from floor to floor what man would be satisfied to settle on level two if he was lead to believe the women to be found on level three were better... my point is, it's not a gender issue. it's a human issue.

That's a stupid joke and proves no point at all, except the women who stop before the 4th floor (ie settle) would be selling themselves short of what they deserve. Are you pissed that no one's settling for you? I don't know, as a woman I feel more qualified than you guys to comment on what drives women. There are golddiggers- they are full-time SPs. They are a small (but high-profile) cross-section of women. Most women just want to grow old with a best friend who they find sexually attractive. What constitutes the sexually attractive part varies...I usually end up dating relatively poor guys because I like 'em laid back. Some girls find power sexy, and like to be dominated. So they go for the type-A control freak types, who are usually either rich, abusive, or both. Hence the stereotype of 'bad boys'. You get what you put out. If all you meet are bitches, that's probably all you deserve.

respectfully disagree: i have been the quintessential 'nice guy' and have had lots of women cry-on-my-shoulder when my 'bad boy' friends dump them ... have had lots of 'transition' girl-friends coming out of one bad relationship into another but with a stop-over to bitch'n'moan at me for a couple months until they are ready for the next bad-boy. and the thing is, as long as i was the 'nice guy' i got a lot of shit from women angry at men but who wouldn't voice that anger at the guy who hurt them because they were all hoping that the bad-boy would one day realize his mistake and come crawling back. yeesh. and i just can't do the bad-boy routine at all ... so, its single or shit-on. and I don't doubt that there are some really, really, really nice women out there ... they're just in relationships with someone else.

No- that's being a 'nice guy'. Most guys who think they're nice guys are actually insecure whiny pussies. There's a big difference. Most guys that think they're nice guys aren't.

I gave 3 solid examples of 3 men who couldn't get laid without money, status or power - the simple SAD truth is women can be bought and purchased. Mick Jagger ugly as hell. Hugh Heffner old as hell. Brad Pitt broke as hell. I rest my case.